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Unheard…. Now heard

Superb portrayal of the typical social attitudes towards issues of domestic violence. DV is NOT gender specific… Anyone and everyone can be a victim of DV in home, every human being in a domestic relationship deserves protection against the perpetrator!

Serbian women turn into husband-bashing wives

Between 7 and 10 per cent of men are exposed to either physical or mental abuse at home

“I must be the first man in the Balkans to admit that I have been battered by my wife,” Dusan Stojkovic said with a wry smile, speaking from Serbia’s first safe [...]

She Makes More Money!

A recent Pew Research Center study called “Women, Men and the New Economics of Marriage (Jan. 19, 2010 by Richard Fry and D’Vera Cohn) revealed that women are making much more money, over the recent past, than at any other time in our history.  The study had the following opening: “The institution of marriage has undergone significant changes in recent decades as women have outpaced men in education and earnings growth.  These unequal gains have been accompanied by gender role reversals in both the spousal characteristics and the economic benefits of marriage.”

It makes total sense given the changing values and trends in our society and the increasing number of women attending college, now outnumbering men significantly.  But, the social impact of these changes might be troubling.  As part of the generation that is both responsible for and feeling these transformations the most, I have mixed feelings about this brave new world.

Further conclusions from this report were that “A larger share of men in 2007, compared with their 1970 counterparts, are married to women whose education and income exceed their own…A larger share of women are married to men with less education and income.”  What does all this mean for our children who are growing up in this changing environment?  I’m not sure and I can only make some generalities from my own perspective.

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Porn may be good for society

Our happy hour fact to amaze your pub-going pals with.

Every study on the relationship between porn and sex crimes concludes that when the availability of pornography increases, the rate of sex crimes either stays static or decreases.

For example, in the United States, there has been [...]

A Song I like... Hindi

It’s a Hindi song from an Indian Movie. Only people that can understand Hindi can understand the lyrics below. For the others, I’ll try to post a translation of the lyrics soon.

Hindi Song: Akela Dil Online Savy Movie or Album: Dulha Mil Gaya Singer(s): Adnan Sami, Anushka Manchanda Music Director(s): Lalit Pandit [...]

Win-win on gender equality

Patriarchal society’s approach to correcting the gender power balance is wrong-headed

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One of the big myths of the women’s lib movement is that women have everything to gain from greater gender equality and men everything to lose. Both sexes have bought this argument lock, stock and barrel without stopping to think. Given widespread acceptance that women have been discriminated against, this is not surprising.

But it’s not the whole story. While there is no doubt formal power will have to be more equally shared, the real truth lies somewhere in-between: men have much to gain from a more equal society and women have something to lose from it.

The stereotyping of gender roles has taken a huge toll of men — and they don’t even know it. Men invest so much of their energies trying to achieve career and public success that they have completely failed to savour their softer sides, their relationships, their children — everything. Little wonder they are more prone to heart-attacks and more likely to die violent deaths than the other sex.

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