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Posted on: August 17th, 2010Superb portrayal of the typical social attitudes towards issues of domestic violence. DV is NOT gender specific… Anyone and everyone can be a victim of DV in home, every human being in a domestic relationship deserves protection against the perpetrator!
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 Tags: domestic relationship, domestic violence, dv, family, Feminism, feminist's lies, feminists, gender equality, Government, judiciary, Laws, legal extortion, legal terrorism, marriage, married men's suicides, men, men's rights, NCW, perpetrator, portrayal, Rishiraj Mistry, social attitudes, society, women empowerment, women's rights |  Category: Social |  Leave a comment महिला अधिकारों की जब बात उठती है तो महिलाएं क्या मांगती हैं? जाहिर है बराबरी का अधिकार। लेकिन अगर बराबरी की मांग करते-करते कोई खुद शोषणकारी की तरह बर्ताव करने लगे तो…. कम से कम कुछ मामलों में तो यही हो रहा है। इसमें कोई दो राय नहीं है कि अभी भी कई जगह खासकर गांवों में महिलाओं की स्थिति बहुत दयनीय है और उन्हें उनके अधिकार दिलाने के लिए जितना भी किया जाए वह कम है लेकिन ऐसी महिलाओं की संख्या भी बढ़ रही है जो अपने हक के लिए मिले कानून का दुरूपयोग कर रही हैं। और कानून भी इसमें मूकदर्शक बने रहने के अलावा कुछ नहीं कर पा रहा है। मेरा एक मित्र है जिसने कुछ दिनों पत्रकारिता की और अब लॉ करने के बाद एक सीनियर क्रिमिनल लॉयर के साथ ट्रेनिंग ले रहा है। कुछ ही दिन पहले वह मिला और इतना व्यथित था कि पूछिए मत। वजह पूछने पर बताया कि यार गलत काम मैं कर नहीं सकता और न करूं तो वकालत करने का सपना छोड़ना पड़ेगा। और मेरे पैरंट्स मुझे समझने की बजाय मुझे प्रैक्टिकल बनने की सलाह दे रहे हैं। हुआ यूं कि कुछ दिन पहले उसके सीनियर के पास एक महिला आई। पढ़ी लिखी और मॉडर्न। उसने अपने 2 साल पुराने पति और उसके पैरंट्स के खिलाफ घरेलू हिंसा कानून के तहत केस दर्ज कराया था। वह वकील से कहने लगी कि मैं अपने पति और उसके पूरे परिवार को जेल में देखना चाहती हूं चाहे इसके लिए कुछ भी करना पड़े। आप चाहें तो सबूत क्रिएट करने के लिए मैं अपने शरीर पर सिगरेट से दागने के निशान बना सकती हूं। इतना बताया ही था कि मेरा वह दोस्त बुरी तरह बरस पड़ा। उसने बताया कि एक हफ्ते से वह सीनियर लॉयर के पास नहीं गया है क्योंकि जब उसने उनसे कहा कि सर ये तो गलत है तो उन्होंने उसे ही लेक्चर दे डाला। एक वाकया और याद आ रहा है जब मैं कॉलेज में स्टूडेंट यूनियन में थी। एक 22 साल के लड़के को रेप के आरोप में गिरफ्तार किया गया। कुछ सीनियर पुलिस अधिकारियों ने बताया कि दरअसल मामला कुछ और ही है। वह लड़का एक कॉल गर्ल के पास गया और बाद में पैसों को लेकर कुछ बहस हुई और 40 रुपये को लेकर उसने लड़के पर रेप का केस कर दिया। मेडिकल टेस्ट में भी उसकी पुष्टि हो गई। पुलिस वाले हकीकत जानते हुए भी कुछ नहीं कर सके और उस लड़के को सजा हो गई। Tags: 498a, a4 a6, a5, aa, bf, couple weeks, domestic violence, domestic violence act, dowry prohibition act, e0, family, Feminism, feminists, Government, harassment, husband, life, marriage, men, Navbharat Times, open question, Peedit, Purush, questionnaires, sexual harassment, shania twain, shortcuts, Tortured Men, wedding, wife, women empowerment | Category: Feminism, Laws, Social | Comments are closed A group of victimised mothers-in-law from Bangalore have started their own helpline, and plan to approach TV producers and film-makers to get them to re-work the ‘unfair’ portrayal of the saas figure in popular culture Mumbai: For years they’ve been haunting television and movie [...] Tags: Daughter-in-law, daughters in law, dowry, family, family health survey, film makers, marriage, Mother-in-law, mothers in law, national family health survey, real mothers, society, sudha chandran, tv producers | Category: Feminism, News, Social | Comments are closed Once upon a time, there was a king who ruled a prosperous country. One day, he went for a trip to some distant areas of his country. When he was back to his palace, he complained that his feet were very painful, because it was the first time that he [...] Tags: amount of money, anger, change the world, control, cows, distant areas, family, Government, harassment, heart, improvement, life, little piece of leather, living, long trip, piece of leather, prosperous country, psychology, relationship, self, self help, Self Improvement, society, success, suggestion, wise servant, world | Category: Self Improvement, Values | Comments are closed People form judgments through flash intuitions, not after a deliberative process If you want to tell whether someone is conservative or liberal, what are a couple of completely nonpolitical questions that will give a good clue? How’s this: Would you be willing to slap your [...] Tags: anger, antagonisms, blowhards, change the world, comedy skit, failure, family, fear, harassment, jonathan haidt, liberals and conservatives, life, living, mental strength, mental workout, neural responses, News, personality, psychology professor, public restroom, relationship, self, Self Improvement, society, sparring partner | Category: Social, Values | Comments are closed Is there a formula—some mix of love, work, and psychological adaptation—for a good life? For 72 years, researchers at Harvard have been examining this question, following 268 men who entered college in the late 1930s through war, career, marriage and divorce, parenthood and grandparenthood, and old age. Here, for the first time, a journalist gains access to the archive of one of the most comprehensive longitudinal studies in history. Its contents, as much literature as science, offer profound insight into the human condition—and into the brilliant, complex mind of the study’s longtime director, George Vaillant. Case No. 218 How’s this for the good life? You’re rich, and you made the dough yourself. You’re well into your 80s, and have spent hardly a day in the hospital. Your wife had a cancer scare, but she’s recovered and by your side, just as she’s been for more than 60 years. Asked to rate the marriage on a#FF0000 scale of 1 to 9, where 1 is perfectly miserable and 9 is perfectly happy, you circle the highest number. You’ve got two good kids, grandkids too. A survey asks you: “If you had your life to live over again, what problem, if any, would you have sought help for and to whom would you have gone?” “Probably I am fooling myself,” you write, “but I don’t think I would want to change anything.” If only we could take what you’ve done, reduce it to a set of rules, and apply it systematically. Right? Case No. 47 You literally fell down drunk and died. Not quite what the study had in mind. Last fall, I spent about a month in the file room of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, hoping to learn the secrets of the good life. The project is one of the longest-running—and probably the most exhaustive—longitudinal studies of mental and physical well-being in history. Begun in 1937 as a study of healthy, well-adjusted Harvard sophomores (all male), it has followed its subjects for more than 70 years. Tags: adult development, anger, change the world, failure, family, george vaillant, Happiness, harvard study, improvement, joshua wolf shenk, Joy, kids grandkids, life, live-in, living, longtime director, marriage and divorce, media, News, profound insight, psychological adaptation, psychology, relationship, self, self help, Self Improvement, society, success, temper, war career | Category: Self Improvement, Values | 2 comments - (Comments are closed) |
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